Product Overview

Capture His Heart was ALMOST the biggest BOMB in our company’s history. Instead it became a cold traffic MONSTER, earned affiliates MILLIONS of dollars in commissions and set a new standard for what could be done in this niche. (A standard that was only exceeded when we launched “Language Of Desire.”)

Well, when we tested the first version of the Capture His Heart VSL (with fancy animation and everything) it did… OK. We got 2% conversion to our list and 2% conversion to a friend’s list. Most folks would be happy about that but personally I was close to suicidal because I want EVERYTHING we do to be TOP CONVERTERS for our affiliates. 

After an epic overhaul to our VSL he results were… awesome. In fact we QUADRUPLED conversions literally overnight… got a whopping EIGHT percent conversion to our own list… saw a 10% conversion on some partner lists and made many affiliates GIDDY and GLEEFUL with the cash they earned during our launch and beyond.

Even better, the offer proved it could convert on COLD traffic and we paid out a whopping SEVEN FIGURES in commissions in the offer’s first year.

So, you know, it works.

If you have any questions or comments send us an email or post on our exclusive Affiliate Facebook Page where you can get direct access to the whole team.

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Offer Price: $47

Commission Rate: 75%

Maximum Upsell Value: $121

Perfect For: Women, age 24 to 65, single, casually dating, or returning to the dating world.

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3 Ways

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3 Ways to Capture His Heart. . .
3 Ways to Make Him Love You. . .
3 Ways to Make a Man Love You. . .

Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

I’m kind of shocked that he did this, but relationship
expert Michael Fiore just put up a new presentation that
teaches you the 3 Steps to “make” a man fall in love with
you. . .

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This video is pretty controversial and I’m not sure how
long Mike is going to leave it up.

Especially because in it Mike tells a very personal story
about how his girlfriend got him to chase her, seduce her
and basically beg her to be his (and how he couldn’t be
happier that she did.)

If you want to know how to really get a guy to be yours (and
only yours) you need to go watch this video now.

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P.S. Seriously, what Michael reveals in this video is personal,
romantic, devastating controversial. I can’t believe he opened
up like this and told the real story of how one woman “tamed”
him and almost magically got HIM to decide it was time to stop
“playing the field.”

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P.P.S. Like Mike says in the video, “I know these 3 steps work
because they worked on ME. . . ”

I don’t think you can get better proof than that.

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Make Him Commit

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How to make a “Bad Boy” commit to you. . .
If you want a man to commit, do this. . .
How to make a man fall in love?

Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players” and guys who just
won’t commit, you need to go watch this new educational
presentation Michael Fiore put up. . .

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It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches
you the 3 Simple Steps any woman can take to make a man not
just “fall” for a girl. . . but to actually make him obsessed
with her so HE decides he WANTS to be serious. . .

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No ultimatums. No begging and pleading. No crying.

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men really want
and NEED from a woman for them to be able to give EVERYTHING to
her. . .

(In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend Captured His
Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though he was “playing
the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

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Whether you’re single, dating or have been married for years you
need to watch this now.



P.S. If you know Michael you know he never hold back. Go learn the
truth here:

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Make Him Love You Forever?

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Capture His Heart
Make Him Love You Forever?
Make him addicted to you?
The “Love Lie”. . .
Capture his ♥ and make him love you forever?

Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

You probably already know this (or feel it so deep in your
bones) but if you want to have an incredible relationship
with a man, then getting him to “Love” you just isn’t enough. . .


Because men cheat on women they love.

Men break the hearts of women they really do LOVE every single
day. . .

Nope, if you want a man to really commit to you, seduce you,
chase you, and keep that spark going forever you can’t just
make him love you, you’ve got to make him ADDICTED to you. . .

Which is why you need to go watch this new video from relationship
expert Michael Fiore. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

It’s called “How To Capture A Man’s Heart And Make Him Love
You Forever”. . .

And it teaches you the 3 simple steps to making a man truly
obsessed with you so he’d do anything to keep you in his arms. . .

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This video is emotional, honest and will teach you things about
love you may not have wanted to hear. . .

But you have to go watch it now. . .

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P.S. In this video Michael reveals his days as a “bad boy” who
thought he’d never commit. . . and how one “regular” woman made
her completely and absolutely his. . .


Go watch it now.

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Can you “make” a man love ONLY you?

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Can you “make” a man love ONLY you?
Want him to commit to YOU?
No more disappearing boyfriend. . .

Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’re tired of loving a man SO hard, then helplessly
watching him drift away. . .

Or having him love you while he ALSO has one or more other
women on the side (whom he actually believes he loves). . .

You need to hear this crazy story.

It’s the extremely personal confession of a former “playboy”
who was completely, happily, WILLINGLY “reeled in” by a regular

In the video, Mike Fiore (the former playboy) teaches you the
exact 3 things she did to snap his head around, make him
instantly ditch all the other women, and get this. . .

. . .he repeatedly BEGGED her to be his girlfriend. Man, he
wanted her bad. 🙂

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What’s really crazy is that on top of all that, she made him
think the entire thing was HIS idea.

She didn’t plead, she didn’t cry, and she never drew a line in
the sand.

In fact, she didn’t have to work hard at all – he did all the
work and never realized why his “game” had suddenly changed.

It’s kind of an emotional story. Pretty raw, actually. And
these 3 things worked in a way that even SHE didn’t expect.
Because you know what? She’s not his girlfriend any more.

She’s his wife.

Seriously, stop exhausting yourself trying to hold onto a man.
Let HIM be the one desperately determined to keep you for himself

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P.S. Some have said that these 3 steps (all in the video) contain
a devastating amount of power, and you should know how to use it

Go watch it now:

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Put these 3 things in your secret love arsenal

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Put these 3 things in your secret love arsenal
Want him to commit? Do these 3 things. . .
Guy’s video reveals one woman’s secret “attraction magic”

Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

It’s sort of embarrassing that a guy would do this, but you’ve
got to see this video that “lady’s man” Mike Fiore put up.

In it, he confesses the 3 things his girlfriend did to change
him from a confirmed heart breaker to an urgently committed
man who could only think of romancing one woman in the world. . .

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One minute he had dozens of women he was casually involved
with (I bet you know guys like that), the next minute all he
could think of was HER. . .

He had no idea what hit him.

What she did was simple enough, although it was NOT at ALL obvious.

Now Mike is so deliriously happy that he thinks every woman in
the world should have these 3 things in her secret love arsenal. . .

And he’s right! You should. So go get them, right now!

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P.S. You may have heard of Mike Fiore as “the guy who made Rachel Ray
tingle.” Yep, and when he was on her show, he had written several books
(mostly for guys like himself) on how to get more women.

These days things are a little different for this former “player”. . .
Now all that delicious woman-tingling action goes to ONE special lady.

And now you can find out exactly how to command the complete devotion
of a man of your own. . .

Go watch the video now!

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Make him dizzy with devotion for you…

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Make him dizzy with devotion for you. . .
How to suddenly “wake up” your man’s devotion

Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

You and I both know that men break hearts every day and don’t
seem to feel the kind of pain you do when it happens.

And most guys seem to have as many girlfriends as they want to
love, without really committing to any of them.

That’s not what YOU want, though.

You want ONE amazing, beautiful, committed man; a man who loves
you so deeply he would instantly leave his Xbox console and crawl
across hot coals to gather you tightly into his arms if he even
thought you needed him.

You want a man who can’t get the goofy grin off his face every
time he thinks of you.

In fact, you may already have a man to love, but he just isn’t
giving you back that love in equal measure

You’ve got to see this video:

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What if you had the power to make the man you love suddenly “wake
up” and start urgently working to win your complete devoted attention?

Sounds like a fantasy, doesn’t it?

Amazingly, it’s not.

But rather than tell you how one completely normal woman accomplished
this crazy, wonderful woman-magic, you’ve GOT to watch this video of
her MAN telling you how she did it. . .

And how he LOVED every second of it, too (even though he was worried
he might not win her – how’s that for a change?). . .

Go see his “tell all” video here (it doesn’t make HIM look all that
great, but it makes HER look amazing. . . )

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P.S. The internet has made dating feel hyper-competitive, because it
lets guys find even more beautiful, eager single (or not single, ugh)
women who are willing to do a lot for a little bit of romantic masculine

Put these 3 tools to work for you and put an end to all that craziness.
Isn’t it time you had a man working to win YOUR romantic attention for
a change? 🙂

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Make him desperate for you

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Make him desperate for you
Get HIM to be dramatic about YOU
Never have a broken heart again. . .

Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

Have you ever been so deeply in love you felt desperate for a man
who wasn’t feeling the same way for you?

You know the kind of heartache I’m talking about. . .

The kind where the more urgent you felt, the more he seemed to be
backing away?

Where the drama and intensity piles up until, boom: the relationship
breaks completely, leaving YOU completely devastated, while he seems
only mildly inconvenienced (and moves on to a new woman, practically
the next day).

What if you could COMPLETELY reverse that scenario?

Make him so desperate for YOU that he can’t sleep at night for
wondering how to make you his and his alone. . .

Cause him to pursue you restlessly until you’re nestled happily in
his arms, listening to his voice rumbling in his chest as he murmurs
one romantic promise after another. . .

This totally “regular” woman did EXACTLY that – turned the tables on
the guy she wanted – and it worked!

It wasn’t hard, but you DO have to know what you’re doing.

And the totally WEIRD thing is that now her boyfriend has made this
slightly embarrassing (for him), very revealing (for you) “tell all”

It explains the 3 unusual things she did to completely put HIM in the
“desperate-for-her” seat. . .

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It was kind of out of character for him to get so dramatic about a
woman (after all, he was used to having his pick of lovely ladies),
but when she did these 3 things, he really fell for her, and fell hard.

No, it’s not some “trick.” The 3 steps are just not how most women
typically approach things with a man, and they certainly aren’t
expected by any guy.

But they totally spin his head around, and make him putty in your
hands. You may find him down on one knee, when you NEVER expected
THAT to happen.

In fact, there’s one thing the video DIDN’T tell you. . .

He’s not her boyfriend any more – he’s her husband. 🙂

Those 3 steps he shares in the video had a nearly hypnotic power, and
kept working long after she set them in motion. I guess you could say
they are still working, even today, long after the fact.

So if you’re ready to make broken hearts a thing of the past. . .

If you’re ready to finally let a man do the work (and be excited to do
it) of chasing, winning, and loving you forever. . .

You gotta see this video!

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P.S. You *deserve* to be in the driver’s seat of your love life, whether
you’re dating or have been married for years.

Watch this video and learn exactly how to secure the love you want without
drama, pleading, or misery. . .

Go see it now.

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[Testimonials] Real messages from real customers

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“Optimistic about love… for the first time in a long time!”

Optimistic about love…for the first time in a long time!

Most of my friends have no idea what it’s like to be single. They have good intentions, but their advice is usually way off. This program is like
talking to a smart friend who GETS it. Claire has made me feel optimistic about love for the first time in a long time. The modules are really fun to go through, and the worksheets are actually helpful (I was a little skeptical about the exercises, but they work!). I’d enthusiastically recommend this program to any woman who has become discouraged about finding the right guy.

“I have a secret superpower now…”

Claire is like the no-BS, wiser friend I wish I had. She’s a sweetheart, but she’ll give it to you straight… and no philosophical crap either &em; just real, useful step-by-step advice. I’ve learned so much and I really do feel like I have a secret superpower now. As an added bonus, this stuff is FUN! So if you were thinking homeworky drudgery, don’t. You’re going to have a blast with it.

“I have the program CHH and it’s the best decision I’ve made.”

“I now think of you as one of my dear friends!”

I’m sure that you hear this all of the time, but as I read this, I felt so special, like, “Oh my gosh, she wrote this for me!” I felt supported, like someone really knew all the pain that I was going through. Obviously, i am not the only one that has ever gone through this, but it was a first for me, and I felt pretty devastated. Thank you, Claire! I now think of you as one of my dear friends! Thanks for the advice! 🙂

“Opened my eyes to so much more”

Thank you so much for the opportunity both you and Ms. Casey are giving so many of us, that we can finally see where we have been going wrong, the opportunity to open our eyes to so much more.

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  • Open that door in yourself that magically pulls men in
  • Learn how to see, understand, and easily remove all the invisible barriers that stand between you and your dream man
  • Understand the powerful forces that make a man want to commit to one incredible woman – and put them to use on YOUR man
  • Capture His Heart will show not only show you HOW, but also WHY.
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Former player reveals how his fiance “tricked him” into being hers…

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Capture His Heart Q&A with Claire Casey


Q&A with Claire Casey, author of Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever

Q: Melissa asks, “How quickly will I get access to ‘Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever?

A: Right away. 2 minutes after you order, you’ll be looking at the first videos, or downloading your first PDFs or audio files of content for Capture His Heart. It’s really that simple!

Remember those days when we had to wait forever to get a package in the mail? This is so much better! Don’t you love the internet?


Q: Amy asks, “What makes you such an expert on men?”

A: Maybe because I live with four of them. I’ve been married for more than 20 years, and I’ve raised 3 sons.

But the real expertise, I think, comes from the fact that my relationships have not always been easy. It’s not always obvious how to respond when you are feeling ignored or unheard, or have other serious issues.

I’ve been through some unbelievably painful times where I wasn’t sure we’d make it, times when I cried myself to sleep every night, or kept myself emotionally cold and distant so things wouldn’t hurt so bad.

And to win back the relationship of my dreams, the kind of committed bond I knew I deserved, I had to do some research, and get some serious help.

I had to dig, and dig hard for the not-so-obvious answers and hard-to-find information and THEN I had to do the difficult work of taking a look at what I needed to change in myself, and in the way I interacted with men.

To this day I’m deeply grateful that I had some of the best help in the world, and as I learned and grew, and my relationship with my man recovered from those terrible injuries we both unknowingly inflicted on each other, I began to wish I’d known these powerful women’s secrets LONG before I did.

And here’s a little tidbit you might enjoy:

I actually first discovered Michael Fiore when I was out on the internet looking for ways to help my man and me learn some fun seduction techniques – something clean but super smokin’ hot and sexy. And I came across Mike’s Text Your Wife Into Bed program.

And even though I was the wife (!!), I bought it, we both loved it, and I told a very good friend of mine how awesome it was.

As it turned out, that good friend was also a good friend of Mike’s!

So he connected the two of us, because I was about to start writing a fabulous program designed especially for women, to share some of the most critical things a woman should know and do in order to win the man of her dreams…

All that stuff that NOBODY tells you about how to let that guy find you, make him desperately want you, and be utterly unwilling to ever have anyone else by YOU?

“Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever” is the program I wrote!


Q: Susan asks, “I already found the man of my dreams but I lost him. We broke up and I want him back. Will your program help me?”

A: Susan, I’m so sorry this happened to you – and I wish I could say it’s unusual to hear, but it’s not. Lots of us have been there.

In fact, that’s where I was just a few years before I wrote Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.

And the good news is that YES, this program is designed specifically for women like you (and me, not so long ago), so that you’ll have the tools and information you’ll need to:

  • open that door in yourself that magically pulls men in…
  • be able to see, understand, and easily remove all the invisible barriers that stand between the two of you…
  • understand the powerful forces that make a man want to commit to one incredible women – and put them to use on YOUR man!

And I want to make SURE you read this part:

No matter HOW LONG it’s been since your man left (if he isn’t married, of course), there’s a good chance that you can win him back.

Capture His Heart will show not only show you HOW, but also WHY.


Q: Sarah asks, “I just want to meet a great guy. It seems like the only guys who are interested in me end up hurting me again and again. I’ve almost given up. Can you help me?”

A: Sometimes you lose a man and you realize he was NOT the one for you. There are plenty of jerks out there who will use you and toss you away without a second thought. You don’t want ANYthing to do with those creeps.

What you want is to start to understand WHY this pattern is repeating itself, and HOW to attract ONLY the kinds of men who are wonderful and true.

And that’s a big part of what I take you through in Capture His Heart.

But it’s MORE than that, too.

Because I want every woman to have a sort of “future vision” – the ability to determine whether a man is worth your investment of heart and soul LONG before you go through the emotional trauma of a devastating breakup.

Capture His Heart puts YOU in the seat of power in ANY relationship. You’ll learn exactly how to look calmly ahead, see with perfect clarity what is about to happen, and make a decision about what you want to do NOW.

Which means

  • No more time wasted on a douchebag guy.
  • No more effort poured into a relationship that’s going nowhere.
  • No more horrible, embarrassing, surprise “I need space” talks.
  • No more surprise, embarrassing anything, actually.

Because you would KNOW. In advance. And you could decide whether you wanted to keep
the relationship, or deep-six it and move on.

Q: Elaine asks, “Can I really trust your guarantee?”

A: Yes, you can absolutely trust my guarantee. Your order is also protected by – one of the largest merchants on the Internet since 1998.

In fact, if you’re really unsure about whether to go ahead and TRY the program, I’d say you have NOTHING to lose. Because you can go ahead and TRY it at NO RISK. Get inside, take a look around, read through some of the content and watch the videos. Page through the worksheets and try out the bonus content.

And if you REALLY feel it’s just not worth putting time and energy into helping the man of your dreams find you and beg you to be his and his only FOREVER…

…all it takes is an email to get your money back.

That’s it! Just let our support diva Maggie know. No hassles, no worries, and Michael and I will still wish you the very best.

But we both think you’ll agree with us that this is one of the best possible ways you can jet fuel your progress toward finding and having the committed, secure, loving relationship you want and deserve…

And we hope you’ll let us know how it goes!

Q: Fiona asks, “Is this one of those monthly memberships where I’m going to be charged again and again?”

A: Not at all!

This is a ONE-TIME purchase, and you get LIFETIME upgrades when new versions are released! You get access to the entire Capture His Heart community as well. For as long as you want, as often as you want.

In fact, you might just find yourself coming back – not too long from now – to help others along the same path of discovery and joy you traveled down!

So: NO, there are no recurring fees! At all. Ever.


Q: Theresa asks, “Who shouldn’t buy this program?”

A: If you like being miserable, this isn’t for you.

Yes, I’m being flip, but I bet you know people like that – women and men who seem to be otherwise smart, strong, sensible people…

Yet they continue to remain in an unhappy situation even when the tools for change are RIGHT THERE AT HAND. I don’t think it’s so much about preferring to be miserable as it is simply that some people will stick with what they already know, even when they are fully aware it’s not good for them.

But you’re not one of those people, superfox. You’re smarter, stronger, and you believe in a beautiful future for YOU. Starting NOW.

Otherwise, regarding “who should buy this program” – Capture His Heart is primarily for women –  BUT would you believe there are plenty of guys who get it, because they desperately want to get a sneak peek into the working heart and mind of a confident and sexy woman too? There are!

These guys want to know HOW it is that YOU’RE so amazing… Cool, huh?

Last thing:

The truth is that you are ALREADY investing in yourself and your happiness:

You’ve read this far, you’ve done your careful evaluation, and you already know there’s no risk to you because of our ironclad guarantee. You are SO ready for this. You deserve this, beautiful!

And that’s that. Honestly, I can’t wait until you dive into Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever and realize how easy it is to finally get the man of your dreams.

He’s out there. He’s looking for you. And by using these simple tools you’ll make it so easy for him to find you and to finally give you the relationship you deserve.

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[Article] Oh, The (Stupid) Things Men Say in Bed

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The (Stupid) Things Men Say in Bed…
He’d Be So Much Cuter with His Mouth Closed…
When Pillow Talk Goes Wrong


Why do men say what they think women want to hear? And why does it come out sounding so bad? Author Claire Casey tackles the issue…

Oh, The (Stupid) Things Guys Say in Bed…

Dear Claire,
I recently had a little tryst with a guy who left me wondering why he just ended contact with no explanation at all. We had an amazing night together, and yes we did stay up most of the night, but come morning I don’t think he knew what to do with me. I may have made a little blunder in the throes of passion when I said “Where have you been for the last 20 years?” His reply was, “Marrying the wrong woman, is that what you want to hear?” No, not exactly. I wanted to hear what he honestly felt and not what he thinks I want to hear. I suspect that most of the men I’ve attracted on the dating sites are all about saying what they think women want them to say. What’s up with that?

— Sabrina

Whoops. Well that was a supremely insensitive thing for him to say. And I’m guessing the reason he disappeared – even after such a fabulous night in bed – was that even he knew he screwed this one up. In Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever, I explain why men lose interest after you’ve had sex with them and how you can stop that from happening by being his dream woman.

And it sounds like he got a little lost – sometimes guys are frantically trying to say whatever it takes to get laid. But even if that was in his head, he should never have said it. Sure, there are lots of men (and women!) out there who are absolutely desperate for some red-hot action in the sack, but that doesn’t excuse poor manners.

Of course, it would have been best if he’d simply owned up to his blunder so that the two of you could try again. But guys have a ridiculously hard time apologizing to a woman, particularly over something they equate with their performance, and this goes double for performance in bed.

And I know you want to hear what a guy “honestly” feels, but here’s the thing: During those first few dates, and especially those first few intimate encounters, EVERYBODY is trying to say what the other person wants to hear. Or else we’re just exchanging light, top-level information. It’s what we do before we really, really TRUST each other. In Capture His Heart, I also shed light on the actual truth about men’s minds and show
you how to stun a guy by showing that you actually understand is secret needs.

So don’t be too hard on yourself or on all the guys on the dating sites. Allow those first encounters to be a little “surface” — allow time for trust to
build. And even after you know each other, it won’t all be roses (you know that), but there are some great men out there who ARE worth your time and love.
You can find them!


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[Article] Is He Moving Too Slowly For You?

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Is He Moving Too Slowly For You?
Should I Commit if He Won’t?
Why Men Hold Back…


Is it worth dating a man who’s moving too slowly? Why are some men so averse to commitment? Claire Casey answers a reader question…

Dear Claire,

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 months, but he seems to move really slowly. He told me that he noticed me 4 years back (we work at the same firm), and that when I started here he always looked out for me (not in a stalking way). He told me that he just had to take charge to say hi and officially meet me, and we have been together since then.

Just to give you an idea on him, he’s been with the same firm for 20 years. He is happy in his job, yes he did move up in the ranks and did make a name for himself. He told me he likes routine a lot and does not make hasty decisions.

I one time asked him why he holds back so much and he replied that he wants to make sure of what he wants…because he ‘s been hurt before. I also got hurt before, but I am not holding back…

Your program “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever” started me thinking on do I want to commit to this guy, if he’s like this in our relationship now how will this be if he ever asks me to get married?

What I would like to know… am I wasting my time with this guy or is he just really slow?

Thanks, Marie

Hi, Marie —

You’re dating a quiet, slower man, and they have their own advantages and disadvantages, and depending on what YOU want out of a relationship I think they can make pretty awesome partners.

Here’s why…

The big advantages:

A quiet, slow man is usually very stable, not just emotionally, but also (very frequently) financially. For some people, this is a huge benefit. In other words, you get to be the dynamic, whirlwind person and he provides the grounding for that. You won’t be competing with him for attention, either.

Also, a man with a slow, deliberate approach can be quite a pleasure in the bedroom 🙂 He’ll take the time to get you where you want to go.

The potential problem:

The reason some women don’t like the slower-paced guys is because it just takes them forever to make a move! You might get frustrated at having to wait on him all the time. And if you’re hoping to commit within a short time-frame, you might have to pass this guy on by.

But not necessarily! Men secretly yearn for commitment and marriage and in Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever, I teach you how to turn that yearning into a truly primal need.

Slow-paced guys are usually pretty happy for you to lead on making moves, for one thing. So be SURE to communicate openly and clearly with him on the important stuff. This means you have to know what you want, of course, so if you’re not clear, GET clear.

And when it comes to commitment, the key to working with a man like this is to let him know your timeframe. If you hope to get married within a year after starting to date someone, you need to be able to let him know this in a non-threatening way.

Best to you, Marie!



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[Article] What Men Really Think About Your Body

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What Men Really Think About Your Body
I used to HATE my feet…
What’s your worst physical feature?


When YOU look at yourself in the mirror, you see that front tooth that’s a bit crooked, the line where your bra presses in (you call this your “back fat”), the too-small breasts or the too-wide rear, your goofy knees, funny toes…. The list goes on and on. But do you know what your MAN sees?

This may come as a shock to you but guys have different eyeballs than you do.

You know why I’m saying that?

Because when YOU look at yourself in the mirror, you see that front tooth that’s a bit crooked, the line where your bra presses in (you call this your “back fat”), the too-small breasts or the too-wide rear, your goofy knees, funny toes…. The list goes on and on.

But you know what your MAN sees? A woman he’d love to strip naked and get busy with right this instant, maybe sooner.

My personal body part confession…

Maybe you have a muffin top “thing,” but I used to HATE my feet.

When I was a teenager, I had surgery on my big toes (bunions, it’s such an ugly word!!) and for the next 20 years I zealously covered my feet. I never EVER owned a pair of sandals or open-toed shoes and would have died before I let a man openly look at my feet.

I have a big scar running the length of both big toes. My second toe is longer. My feet are… wanky. You know. Ugh, I could make myself MISERABLE thinking about my feet.

Shockingly, amazingly, wonderfully, I found a man actually willing (he would say, desperate!) to marry me.

I hope you’re laughing now, but at the time, I found it next to impossible to think about what kind of man would marry me “even with these feet.”

3 ways MEN see your body…

If you asked my man which of my physical attributes attracted him, it’s really hard for him to move past the standard T&A answer you’d probably get from any man. You can almost see a physical effort as he drags his sex-craving brain past the chest, past the butt, and FINALLY he’ll tell you something like, “She has gorgeous shoulders…”

I bet he didn’t even know I had scars on my feet for the first 10 years we were married.

Here’s the thing: Men see your body in three ways, and it’s nothing like the way you see yourself.

1. They see what makes you WOMANLY

This means when they look at you they instantly notice the things about your body that make you uniquely a woman. Breasts, hips, ass, curves… Even the way you walk. It’s nearly impossible for a red-blooded heterosexual male to notice anything before they read the parts of your body that say: I am a woman.

Your arm flaps do not make this list. Your cellulite does not make this list. Your stretch marks do not make this list. Sorry.

2. They see what makes you UNIQUE

That chipped tooth you hate? They think it’s kind of charming. The muffin top? They can’t see it because it’s too near your ass, which they think is the finest thing in nine counties. Do you think your lips are too thin? They just love it when you smile at them. (And truthfully, when they think about your lips on their body, they are NOT thinking “Oh her lips are too thin.” I PROMISE.)

If guys notice a particular body part of yours that you think makes you hideous (and I guarantee you they would never use that term) they just think it makes you uniquely…you! And since it’s YOU they are desperate for, they want that part of you as much as the others.

3. They see what you constantly draw their attention to

This is where you have the power to rock or ruin a relationship.

When you constantly complain about your own body, a man’s desire to enjoy and love you are being eroded a little at a time. In other words, you’re rejecting him. He thinks, “I could touch her body all day,” and you say, “I’m too flabby.” You’re not only tearing yourself down, you’re tearing HIM – his thoughts, his desires for you, his excitement about you – down.

And it works the other way, too. Show off your pedicure (I do, now!), go sleeveless, wear that backless dress, and ruthlessly tease him with the body he absolutely adores.

A man loves a REAL woman

Of course he looks at the naked, “perfect” girls in the magazine or online. And of course you’re bombarded with “perfect” skinny chicks on the runway or the billboard.

But a picture of perfection – whether it’s real or not – is no competition whatsoever for a living, breathing, fragrant woman sitting next to a man at a restaurant. Or pressed slightly against him in the elevator. Perfection can go hang; you are up close and personal.

Stepford wives are creepy. You can be assured that while he might fantasize about a playmate of the month, he’ll take a real woman over a figment of his imagination EVERY time.

Celebrate your body (and let him do it, too)!

Of course you want to invest time and energy into a healthy, beautiful body. But meanwhile, don’t let your own issues with your body drive him away. You deserve all the fabulous man-attention as he wants to give you!

How to make a man fall in love with you

Maybe you’re still waiting for that amazing guy to come along… Is there anything YOU can do to get him here and in your life, right now? Listen to the story of how one woman “tamed” renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore, and almost magically got HIM to decide it was time to stop playing the field.

→ Get your “bad boy” (or ANY man) to fall for you

No ultimatums. No begging and pleading. No crying. In this video, Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men 
really want and NEED from a woman for them to be able to give EVERYTHING to her…

About Claire Casey

Claire Casey has spent years traveling the sometimes dazzling, sometimes dark and rocky paths that connect the hearts of men to the women they love. As a lifelong writer, she has studied and written about the ways men and women grow (or destroy) love. Unlike the spotlight-loving, entertainment-based celebrity relationship coaches, Claire isn’t a model or a TV spokesperson, and she doesn’t have a lot of academic letters after her name… She just quietly empowers women to attract the kind of man who will treasure and protect a woman’s heart like the rare and beautiful gem it is.

Claire is the author of the bestselling online program “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.”

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[Article] Two Things that Terrify Men

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Two Things That Terrify All Men
Every Guy’s Two Greatest Fears
Two Things He’ll Never Admit To…
Top 2 Things Men are Terrified Of (and How to Help Without Letting Him Know You Know)


He’s dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!)

Well, he won’t tell you, but I will.

He will never tell you any of this.

In fact, he’s dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!)

Well, he won’t tell you, but I will.

But first, two warnings:

First, this isn’t a complete list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggest ones. (I’m working on more articles about a few of the others…)

Second, I’m not telling you so you can shame him. I’m doing this so you can help him. But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn’t know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty dark secrets, too.

On to the juice, shall we?

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay

I won’t tell you that old thing about how guys want waaay more sex that women do, because it’s actually not true. Women want it, we just want it under different terms. He just… wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it. With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register. He’s even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.

Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what’s showing on the screen shocks even him.

Deep down, he’s terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people. His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it’s a testament to his power that he doesn’t let it drive his life, only his brain.

What YOU can do to help him

Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less scared about his sexual desire. I’m not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about, but be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies. Invite him to give you steamy details. Even the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.

Help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.

And finally, don’t forget to let him know you’re sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he’s going to become so riveted by you he’ll never want to let you go. EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman.

GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think I’m weak

You gotta feel for the men of our world. They’re expected to get a respectable paycheck, make us feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.

It’s a lot to live up to.

It’s impossible to live up to, actually.

And yet that’s the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don’t answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised… Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.

But that doesn’t mean YOU don’t have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.

What YOU can do to help him

I have a question for you: if he’s fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support for him?

I’m not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he’ll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you’re seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.

Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit. Ask for details. Don’t multitask while you’re doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

3 Steps to Make a Man Love You

If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players” and guys who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actually make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

–> Make him powerfully addicted (in a really good way) to you!

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men really want and need from a woman for them to be able to give EVERYTHING to her… (In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend Captured His Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

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[Article] Do You Think He’s Cheating?

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Can You Spot a Cheater?
Test Your Cheater-Radar
When is Cheating, Cheating?


Do you think he’s cheating… when he really isn’t?

Before we begin, tell me which guys in the relationships below are cheating:

1. Hannah and Andre have been dating for 2 years.They’ve talked about getting married. She even thinks he’s been pricing some rings…

2. Elisa and Malik are like the “old couple” among their friends – they’ve been together now for 5 years, and even though they haven’t ever discussed marriage, she isn’t seeing other guys. She refers to him as “my partner” and they have a vibrant sex life.

3. Jasmin and Darren started seeing each other about 4 months ago, and are ecstatically in love. They talk on the phone multiple times every day, and go out on a date several times a week. Last week he moved in with her.


Before you tell me which of the guys in these three relationships do you think is cheating, let me tell you this: Every single one of those guys is seeing other women.

Does that surprise you? Make you angry?

Before you start throwing things (and for the record, I just made those three couples up, and I realize I didn’t give you much information to go on) you should know: the reason I ask is because I think this is an issue that crops up ALL THE TIME for women, and there’s a huge issue underneath the word “cheating”… And THAT’S the real issue we need to discuss…

How most women define cheating

Most women would tell you that if two people are “together” and one of them “sees” other people, that’s cheating. I’m not convinced there’s even one guy in the world who would agree with that definition, though.

And here’s why THAT is really, really bad for all the women in the world.

When a woman has that definition of cheating, she often completely gives over her life to a man who isn’t doing the same. In other words, he’s “won” her and may now either a) lose interest, or b) enjoy and keep all the “benefits” of a relationship with her but never make a commitment, even though she’s made a commitment to him.

If you hope for and want to be married someday, you could lose years of your life this way, waiting for a man who isn’t waiting for you.

So how SHOULD you define cheating?

In my world, “cheating” is a word reserved only for two situations.

First, where two people have made a clear and explicit agreement to date only each other and one of them breaks that agreement.

And second, in a marriage when one person “dates” (meaning sees because they’re sexually or deeply emotionally interested in) another.

Why you should (both) date other people until you are (both) ready to commit

There’s a big difference between dating and exclusivity. If you are a woman who is seeking a committed, exclusive relationship or marriage, one of the best things you could do to secure a commitment is to NOT be so easily won!

I’m not at all saying “play hard to get” – I’m saying look for the man who is going to commit, and don’t stop looking until you find him!

This actually not only keeps you from losing years of your life with a man who isn’t going to commit, it also makes you extremely desirable among men!

How to get him to commit to you

First, you need to clearly communicate (and this is delicate, and I talk more about it in “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever”exactly how long you’re willing to date without a commitment.

Then, you need keep dating other guys until the two of you explicitly agree to be exclusive.

I know it’s hard to spend time seeing, spending time with, and enjoying other guys when all you want is to fall happily into the arms of this one particular man, but until you two agree that you are each other’s “only and forever,” that’s the best path toward your dreams.

How to make him BEG you to be his (and his only!)

If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players,” and guys who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actually make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

–> Make him powerfully addicted (in a really good way) to you!

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men really want and need from a woman for them to be able to give EVERYTHING to her… (In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend captured his heart and made him fall for her HARD even though he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

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[Article] Why Do Guys Watch Porn?

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Does Your Man Watch Porn? (And Should You Worry?)
He Watches Porn Every Night!
Is Porn Actually Good For Your Relationship?


Ahhh, porn. It’s such a powerful force in our relationships, and it affects women and men in such different ways.

Ahhh, porn. It’s such a powerful force in our relationships, and it affects women and men in such different ways.

As for women, we start to worry that we don’t look hot/busty/sexy enough…

“My boyfriend looks at porn every single night. I’ve told him I don’t like it and he promised he would stop, but doesn’t he know I can just look at the history tab on his computer??! I don’t understand this, am I not sexy enough for him? I’ve even lost weight recently, and I still can’t compete.” — Mae S.

“I don’t have the boobs these stripper girls have. My gf is talking about implants, and now I’m wondering if I should get those too…” — Tresha G.

In Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever, I explain why “beauty” is actually only the third most important thing to men and how you can become radiantly attractive to men without having to alter your physique or torture yourself at the gym.

Or we wonder if his watching porn is the same as cheating…

“I’m so tired of his porn that I want to walk away from our relationship. When I try to talk to him about it he accuses me of being insecure, but porn makes me feel like I’m not the one he really wants. He’d rather be with his fantasy women.” — Dara M.

Guys are watching a ton of porn! Should you be worried? Should you give ultimatums, or simply leave? Or is it really a problem in your relationship?

So many questions come in about porn, and it might be helpful to take a look at some of the ways men’s minds work when it comes to looking at naked women online…

A man’s sex drive runs on “rocket fuel” most of the time.

One of my guy friends told me his sex drive made him feel like he was riding a skateboard hitched to a drag racer – one that NEVER stops going.

That’s an image that stuck with me. I can imagine how crazy-out-of-control it must feel. Unless he keeps it in hand (hah), there’s gonna be collateral damage and it ain’t gonna be the drag racer that gets hurt.

The only way he can get the race car to pull off the track and into the pit for a breather…

The one surefire way to burn off some of that constant blast of sexual energy…

…is to ejaculate.

In *addition* to enjoying the hell out of having sex with you, guys masturbate to burn off fuel, when they want to relax, and when they’re restless or bored.

And hey, I’m all about a good, naughty quickie, but I don’t have time to drive over to where he works and give it to him under the desk every day. And while it’s fun once in a while, most women aren’t thrilled about being woken up in the middle of the night to give him a bj so he can get back to sleep. C’mon, there are some things a guy can handle on his own. And porn helps him do it.

The best balance here is when YOU get the best of his sexual energy, and the rest falls to him to take care of. If you want more sexual intimacy than you’re getting, believe me, communicate that and your man will be happy to oblige! If you want less, his ability to masturbate (and even if he’s not watching porn, it’s running in his head) is your friend.

You know things are out of balance when he consistently (and increasingly) chooses porn over real sex, or when he’s spending money you don’t both agree about on his online habit. Both of those are usually an indicator of a bigger problem in the relationship. In Capture His Heart, I teach you how to keep him totally focused on you as his absolute dream woman and how to figure out if he’s actually worthy of you. (LINK)

But if your relationship is actually in a reasonably good place, there’s probably no need to worry about him downloading porn videos to his phone to watch during his smoke break.

Do you have to compete with porn?

Hell, no. Hot, delicious sex (shoot, even routine sex) with a REAL naked woman is a bazillion times better than staring at a cold laptop screen and wishing, wishing…

And he’s a man. He loves to see naked women, including YOU. And you beat them all out because he gets to touch, taste, and thoroughly enjoy you, not just look…! You’re the queen, you always have been, and so long as you’re getting all the sexual attention you want, it’s a pretty good bet that porn will never replace you.

In addition, his watching porn has nothing to do with your breast size. Even if you had sex with him eleven times a day, he’d STILL want to see more naked women. More bouncy breasts, more temptingly rounded asses, more sexy ladies with no clothes on. It has nothing to do with YOUR beautiful curves, it has to do with his appetite.

Think of it like a cooking show. Girl, I can watch a cooking show all day long (and I don’t even have a tv, but I see these shows at the gym and at my friends’ houses). Don’t even get me started on those dudes who do the demos at the State Fair, because I’m mesmerized by them. Does it mean I don’t appreciate when my friends have me over for dinner? No. Does it mean I don’t feel treasured and cared for when my man takes me out to a really nice restaurant? Of course not, that would be silly.

But I am a foodie, and I just love me some cooking shows. Not as much as a great meal… But fortunately, I don’t have to choose. I can enjoy BOTH, and the cooking show will never mind when I turn it off to go enjoy some fresh local seafood with my guy. And I’m never going to turn down a date with a man for an hour with Paula Deen, and I don’t care HOW much butter she uses.

Is porn cheating?

I have one male friend who swears he never looks at porn. He feels that even his sexual fantasies should feature his woman as the (only) star of the show. That feels a bit extreme to me, and you’ll have your own opinion, I’m sure.

My personal position (I see you tryn’a sneak a joke in here) is that watching porn is not cheating so long as YOU are still the center of his real-life sexual universe.

Porn should be no different to him than your cinematic movie crushes (and the cooking show channel) are to you – entertaining, but not something to become a stalker over.

C’mon, Channing Tatum is good to look at (although I’m partial to Matt McConaughey myself), but would you rather spend more time in the movie theater… or snuggled up with a guy who is dying to kiss you all the way from the nape of your neck down to your sexy little instep, with a few slow and delicious stops in between?

That’s what I thought you’d say. Too bad for Channing and Matt.

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