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Affiliates and Super-Affiliates are calling The Language of Desire “The highest converting women’s relationship offer EVER.”

CONVERTS on weight loss, personal development, home business, fitness, hobby and other women’s traffic . . .

CONVERTS on social media . . .

CONVERTS on COLD traffic . . .

Over 7,500 front end sales made during launch. Best-selling relationship launch in Clickbank History lead to over $540,000.00 in sales and over $292,000 paid to affiliates!

Sales video written by 9-figure copywriter Chris “Mr. Moneyfingers” Haddad and every inch of this funnel has been tested, tuned and perfected to make you a TON of money.

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Offer Price: $47

Commission Rate: 50 – 75%

Maximum Upsell Value: $211

Perfect For: Women, age 25 to 65, married or single.

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[Health List] The weight loss LIE that’s keeping you from having incredible sex . . .

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Why men close their eyes during sex (NOTHING to do with how you look)
Why you should NEVER make love with the lights off . . .
Sex means nothing to a man if he does THIS . . .
How to keep a man’s attention even if you’re “fat” . . .
The weight loss LIE that’s keeping you from having incredible sex . . .
What men think about when they don’t think about *you* . . .
What he feels when he sees you naked . . .
Devastating: What men think about when they’re making love with you . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’ve ever been in bed with a man. . .

While the lights were on. . .

Or. . .

Perhaps you were going for an afternoon quickie. . .

And, he closed his eyes and seem to “go somewhere else,” you
have to watch this video right away. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

As hard as it is to believe, it’s not because of your body. It’s
not because of that stubborn fat on your belly. It’s not because
you’re still holding fat on your legs.

Yes, you may be lead to believe that, once he laid sight on the
body your working so hard to improve. . . that he shut his eyes
in utter disgust. Then the more distant he gets in that moment,
your mind races in a wild frenzy. . . because you’re not the
alluring. . . hot-bodied. . . yoga pant-wearing. . . woman you
caught him checking out the other day.

NOPE. None of that is true.

IN FACT, it is something else entirely that made him close his
eyes.

I know that may be hard to believe.

But once you know the truth. . . the rest of your life will change.

This short little video reveals the truth about what men are
thinking about when they’re in bed with a woman (when they
SHOULD be focused 100% mind, body and soul on you). . .

And teaches you EXACTLY what to say and do to get him to SNAP
back to you like a rubber band. . . look you right in the eye. . .
and feel an incredible level of connection he’s simply never
thought was possible before. . .

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You’ll learn more about the erotic imagination of men in
the few minutes it takes you to watch this video than you would
in a lifetime on your own. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

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[Health List] Why getting in shape isn’t enough to make him love you . . .

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For the GOOD girl who wants to be NAUGHTY =-)
How to be his fantasy girl even if you don’t love your body (yet)
How to be his fantasy without acting like a slut . . .
Why getting in shape isn’t enough to make him love you . . .
He’ll think you’re sexy even if you’re wearing a burlap sack if you do THIS . . .
Pulse pounding naughty secret men don’t want you to know . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

I get it. . .

You’ve been a “good girl” busting your butt in the gym.

You’re weight is dropping. . . you’re starting to feel
a bit sexy.

When you look in the mirror. . . you’re starting to feel
less insecure about your body.

Since you’re feeling a bit more. . . voluptuous. . . you
might have an itch to be a bit naughty.

And by naughty I don’t mean having a “cheat day” with
some chocolate.

No. . . The naughty I’m referring to is the “cardio” that
involves toe curling. . . sheet ripping. . . powerful
passionate connection that leaves you exhausted and
satisfied.

Well, if you’ve been a “good” girl who’s feeling that crazy
itch to be just a LITTLE bit naughty you have to go watch
this video right now. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

What I love about this video is that it teaches you the secret
of being INCREDIBLY sexy and alluring to a man without ever
acting or feeling “slutty”. . .

In fact, when you watch this you’ll learn how to get a man more
turned on and desperate for YOU. . .

While fully clothed. . .

Acting totally innocent. . .

Than any other woman he’s ever met could while totally naked. . .

Do me a favor, fill in the blank: The only erogenous zone on a
man that matters is his _______.

Do you know the answer?

Do you know how to USE the answer?

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. The reason so many men “pull away” from women is because
women don’t understand this naughty secret about men. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

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[Health List] How to get your man’s attention without STARVING yourself. . .

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Let me answer ALL your questions . . . (Important)
(DIRTY) but amazing . . .
What he thinks when he sees you naked . . .
What he FEELS when he sees you naked . . .
Why what comes out of your mouth is more important than when you put into it (this’ll make sense I swear.)
How to get your man’s attention without STARVING yourself . . .
The “Lingerie Nightmare” and how to turn him on with ALL your clothes on . . .
Whisper these words and he’ll never think about your weight again . . .
Whisper these words and he’ll never think about your “problem areas” again . . .
Men love “fat” women who know THIS . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

Ok, before we get going I have to warn you. . .

Today’s email gets a LITTLE bit dirty.

But it also gets REALLY fun.

You may have heard me mention Felicity Keith in the past and her brilliant
Language of Desire product.

Well, quite a number of your [NAME OF PRODUCT] sisters have actually
been pinging me with a number of questions. Well today . . . I’m going to
give you the hidden “guy’s truth” behind the most common question I’ve
been getting.

Now, I’m no expert — Felicity is — but I do know what men crave from a
woman.

Ok. . .

I’m going to pick Monica’s version of the question since it’s the most
common one.

Here’s my problem: Sex between me and my boyfriend has gotten kinda
boring. I love him. I think he loves me, but it seems like when we’re
making love it’s just kinda rote and disconnected.

I’ve been doing the [NAME OF PRODUCT] now for 3 months.The results
are great! I feel sexy. I’m getting less insecure about me being naked
and well I want to take advantage of it! I thought he would just want to
ravish me and seduce me. But it’s like he’s pre-occupied. Now, he does ask
me to talk dirty sometimes. But I have no idea what to do. I don’t want to
sound like some sort of skanky bimbo. The main thing is, I just want him to
pay attention to me and make love to me the way he used to and I don’t know
what to do.

Monica, thank you for your question.

And I’m going to give you the same answer I give every woman. . .

If you want your man to be 100% focused on you. . . Fantasizing about you
during the day. . .

Counting down the minutes until he gets to see you again. . .

You don’t have to go to couples therapy.

You don’t have to resort to starving yourself hoping to get your tummy sexy
for him.

You don’t have to buy a bunch of sexy lingerie (though there’s nothing wrong
with doing that if you want.)

Nope, if you want your guy to become sexually and emotionally addicted to
you, all you have to do is learn to TALK DIRTY and make love to his mind.

I’ve said this a lot, but a man’s number one erogenous zone isn’t in his
pants, it’s in his head. . .

Look: Guys live in a state of perpetual sexual fantasy. And we all dream
of meeting a woman who really understands our sexual buttons and knows
how to push them in a really powerful way.

So here’s what I recommend:

If you haven’t seen it yet, then drop whatever your doing and watch video:

{Your Affiliate Link}

Felicity Keith, the expert behind Language Of Desire is not some crazed
nympho.

Nor is she the woman at the gym. . . who is glistening with sweat wearing
nothing but a sports bra (and it looks like she put pencil eraser nubs
inside you know where) for a top. . . and sporting yoga pants that seem
to not leave much to the imagination for the men staring at her (I mean
it’s hard not too when you’re showing that much camel-toe sister).

She is really just your average, early 40’s soccer mom. . .

But what you’ll learn in her video (and when you hear her CRAZY story) is
her “secret code” to men’s erotic minds. . . In fact, I guarantee she can
teach you how to get a man sexually OBSESSED and ADDICTED to you without
even touching him. . .

Listen, if you’re nervous or feel self-conscious talking dirty. . . or if
you feel kind of dumb because you just don’t know what to say, you really
need to check out what Felicity has to say.

Look, you won’t believe what it feels like once you learn what Felicity
has to teach you and feel that amazing CONFIDENCE that comes from knowing
EXACTLY what to say to a man. . .

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

Just whisper these words. . . he’ll forget all about the yoga pant sports bra
hussy. . . and he’ll slay a dragon, crawl across broken glass and do ANYTHING
to be with you (and only you) forever. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

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[Health List] Curvy Soccer Mom’s Secret To Make Her Man OBSESSED. . .

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Curvy Soccer Mom’s Secret To Make Her Man OBSESSED . . .
If you’re insecure about your body READ THIS NOW . . .
Why men hate supermodels . . .
How to make a man OBSESSED with you . . . even if you’re overweight
Why Men Swear Curvy Girls Are Better In Bed . . .
Why Men Swear “Fat” Women Are Better in Bed . . .
Soccer mom’s secret to make your man OBSESSED with you . . .
Men don’t care about your weight if you know THIS . . .
He can’t notice your “problem areas” if you whisper this in his ear
MOMS – this is how you keep a man “interested” when you’re trying to lose the baby weight . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

She hits the nail on the head. I confess. . . I’m BREATHLESS right now.

Yes. . . it’s a bit naughty. . . but wow. . . she just gets it.

If you’re wondering what the heck has my mind racing, heart pumping
and has me floored with its truth. . . then just watch this life-changing
video right now:

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The video is by Felicity Keith. She’s just a normal early-forties
soccer mom from Washington State. But in her amazing video she
teaches you how to make a man sexually and emotionally obsessed
with you. . . without even touching him.

If you’ve ever felt a man pull away, lose interest or suddenly stop
chasing or seducing you and didn’t know why or what to do. . .

Or. . .

If you feel like you never get what YOU need in bed from any guy
you date, then you must watch this eye-opening video right now:

https://hop.clickbank.net/?vendor=lodesire&affiliate=AFFILIATE_ID

Here’s the truth from Felicity that has me floored: To get a man to
be focused on you and only you (so he can’t even THINK about other
women) and so he craves and desires you constantly all you have do
is ____________.

Can you fill in the blank? I’d tell you but I’d feel like I was
stealing Felicity’s amazing insight. . . or the crazy results her
discovery have created. . .

Go watch the video now. . .

https://hop.clickbank.net/?vendor=lodesire&affiliate=AFFILIATE_ID

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You might be a little upset when you first hear Felicity’s story. . . I
know a lot of women can relate to it. . . but when you hear what she
learned from it. . . and how it’s going to change your life forever
you’ll be grinning ear to ear.

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P.P.S The incredible thing is that the “trick” Felicity teaches you works
without a guy having any idea you’re using it. . . or why he’s suddenly so
desperate to give YOU the pleasure, attention and CONNECTION you crave. . .

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This Naughty Erotic Secret Will Make Him Yours Forever . . .

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Incredible: What to do if he stops chasing you . . .
(ARTICLE) How To Make Him Sexually Obsessed With You Without Even Touching Him
If he closes his eyes in bed it means . . .
Women Who Do THIS Never Get Cheated On . . .
This Naughty Erotic Secret Will Make Him Crave You Forever . . .
What Men Will NEVER Tell You About What They Want In Bed . . .
Why men stop wanting to make love . . .
(Article) This Naughty Erotic Secret Will Make Him Yours Forever . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’ve ever felt a man pull away, lose interest
or suddenly stop chasing or seducing you and didn’t
know why or what to do . . .

Or if you feel like you never get what *you* need
in bed from any guy you date, then you must read
this eye-opening – life changing article right
now. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

The article is by Felicity Keith. . .

She’s just a normal early-forties single soccer
mom from Washington state. . .

But in this amazing article she teaches you how
to make a man sexually and emotionally obsessed
with you. . . without even touching him.

{Your Affiliate Link}

To get a man to be focused on you and only you
(so he can’t even *think* about other women and
so he craves and desires you constantly all you
have to do is _____________.

Can you fill in the blank?

I’d tell you but I’d feel like I was stealing Felicity’s
amazing insight. . . or the crazy results her
discovery have created. . .

Go read the article now. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You might be a little upset when you first hear
Felicity’s story. . . but when you hear what she
learned from it. . . and how it’s going to change
your life forever, you’ll be grinning ear to ear.

{Your Affiliate Link}

P.P.S. The amazing thing is that the “trick” Felicity
teaches you works without a guy having any idea you’re
using it. . . or why he’s suddenly so desperate to give
YOU the pleasure, attention and *connection* you
crave. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

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If he closes his eyes in bed it means . . .

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If he closes his eyes in bed it means . . .
What he’s thinking of when he’s “with” you . . .
How to make a man CONNECT with you . . .
Sex means *nothing* to a man if he does this . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’ve ever been in bed with a man and had him close his
eyes and seem to “go somewhere else” you have to go read
this article right away. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

This short little article reveals the truth about what men
are thinking about when they’re in bed with a woman (when
they SHOULD be focused 100% mind, body and soul on you). . .

And teaches you EXACTLY what to say and do to get him to
SNAP back to you like a rubber band. . . look you right
in the eye. . . and feel an incredible level of connection
he’s simply never thought was possible before. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You’ll learn more about the erotic imagination of men in
the 5 minutes it takes you to read this article than you would
in a lifetime on your own. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Click To Close

How to unleash your NAUGHTY side . . .

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How to unleash your NAUGHTY side . . .
How a GOOD girl can unleash her NAUGHTY side . . .
How to be NAUGHTY (without feeling like a slut) . . .
This NAUGHTY trick will blow his mind . . . (Safe for work)


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’re a “good” girl who’s feeling that crazy itch to
be just a LITTLE bit naughty you have to go read this
article right now. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

What I love about this article is that it teaches you
the secret of being INCREDIBLY sexy and alluring to a
man without ever acting or feeling “slutty”. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

In fact, when you read this you’ll learn how to get a
man more turned on and desperate for *you*. . .

While fully clothed. . .

Acting totally innocent. . .

Than any other woman he’s ever met could while totally
naked. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Fill in the blank:

The only erogenous zone on a man that matters is
his ____________.

Do you know the answer?

Do you know how to USE the answer?

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. The reason so many men “pull away” from women
is because women don’t understand this naughty secret
about men. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

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The Good Girl’s Guide To Talking Dirty . . . (From a Guy)

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The Good Girl’s Guide To Talking Dirty . . .
How to talk DIRTY to a man . . .
What me mean when they ask you to TALK DIRTY . . .
When sex gets BORING do THIS . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

OK, before we get going I have to warn you. . .

Today’s email gets a LITTLE bit dirty.

But it also gets REALLY fun. . .

Here’s a question I got from Monica recently. . .

Monica asks. . .

Here’s my problem: Sex between my boyfriend and me has
gotten kind of boring.

I love him. I think he loves me, but it seems like when we’re
making love it’s just become kind of rote and disconnected.

I just want him to pay attention to me and make love
to me the way he used to and I don’t know what to do.

Hi, Monica,

Thanks for your question; it’s one I get a LOT.

And I’m going to give you the same answer I give every
woman. . .

If you want your man to be 100% focused on you. . .

Fantasizing about you during the day. . .

Counting down the minutes until he gets to see you again. . .

You don’t have to kill yourself at the gym.

You don’t have to buy a bunch of sexy lingerie (though there’s
nothing wrong with doing that if you want.)

Nope, if you want your guy to become sexually and emotionally
addicted to you, all you have to do is learn to TALK DIRTY
and make love to his mind.

I’ve said this a lot, but a man’s number one erogenous zone
isn’t in his pants, it’s in his head. . .

Guys live in a state of perpetual sexual fantasy.

And we all dream of meeting a woman who really understands
our sexual buttons and knows how to push them in a really
powerful way.

So here’s what I recommend:

Drop whatever you’re doing and go read his amazing article
by Felicity Keith. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Felicity looks like your normal, average early 40’s soccer
mom. . .

But as you’ll learn in the article (when you hear her CRAZY
story) she discovered the “secret code” to men’s erotic
minds. . .

In fact, Felicity says she can teach you how to get a man
sexually OBSESSED and ADDICTED to you without even
touching him. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

If you’re nervous or feel self conscious talking dirty. . .
or if you feel kind of dumb because you just don’t know what
to say, you really need to check out Felicity’s stuff.

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You won’t believe what it feels like once you learn what
Felicity has to teach you and feel that amazing CONFIDENCE
that comes from knowing EXACTLY what to say to a man. . .

Just whisper these words and he’ll slay a dragon, crawl across
broken glass and do ANYTHING to be with you (and only you)
forever. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

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How to keep a man faithful . . . (From a woman)

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How to keep a man faithful . . .
Men Never cheat if you do this . . .
The best sex you’ve ever had . . . 3,000 miles away . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

You ever feel that ANXIETY?

You know what I’m talking about. . . that FEAR in your
gut when you and the guy you’re dating are miles (maybe
thousands of miles apart.)

See, some folks have this disgusting idea that if you’re
not in the same “zip code” then cheating “doesn’t count”. . .

But that’s total BS.

I used to worry too. . .

But then I learned this Naughty Erotic Secret from Felicity
Keith. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

See, Felicity is just a regular woman like you or me. . .

She’s in her 40s. . .

She’s a little overweight. . .

But she figured out how to use WORDS to keep a guy 100%
sexually focused on YOU (and ONLY you) no matter how
far away you are. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

If you just learn what Felicity talks about it’s like
having a magic thread connecting you and your man. . .

An unbreakable thread. . .

A thread so strong that even if some floozy in a tight
skirt is flirting with him at a business conference all
he can think about. . .

Is YOU. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

You REALLY need to hear about this. . .

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. If this works THOUSANDS of miles away you won’t
believe what it does to a guy if you use it in the same
room with him. . .

WOW.

{Your Affiliate Link}

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How To Make Him Sexually Obsessed With You Without Even Touching Him

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Incredible: What to do if he stops chasing you . . .
(VIDEO) How To Make Him Sexually Obsessed With You Without Even Touching Him
If he closes his eyes in bed it means . . .
Women Who Do THIS Never Get Cheated On . . .
This Naughty Erotic Secret Will Make Him Crave You Forever . . .
What Men Will NEVER Tell You About What They Want In Bed . . .
Why men stop wanting to make love. . .
(VIDEO) This Naughty Erotic Secret Will Make Him Yours Forever . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’ve ever felt a man pull away, lose interest
or suddenly stop chasing or seducing you and didn’t
know why or what to do. . .

Or if you feel like you never get what *you* need
in bed from any guy you date, then you must watch
this eye-opening – life changing video right now. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

The video is by Felicity Keith. . .

She’s just a normal early-forties single soccer mom
from Washington state. . .

But in this amazing video she teaches you how to make
a man sexually and emotionally obsessed with you. . .
without even touching him.

{Your Affiliate Link}

To get a man to be focused on you and only you (so he
can’t even *think* about other women and so he
craves and desires you constantly all you have to do
is _____________.

Can you fill in the blank?

I’d tell you but I’d feel like I was stealing Felicity’s
amazing insight. . . or the crazy results her discovery
have created. . .

Go watch the video now. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You might be a little upset when you first hear
Felicity’s story. . . but when you hear what she learned
from it. . . and how it’s going to change your life
forever, you’ll be grinning ear to ear.

{Your Affiliate Link}

P.P.S. The amazing thing is that the “trick” Felicity
teaches you works without a guy having any idea you’re
using it. . . or why he’s suddenly so desperate to give
YOU the pleasure, attention and *connection* you crave. . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Click To Close

If he closes his eyes in bed it means . . .

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If he closes his eyes in bed it means . . .
What he’s thinking of when he’s “with” you . . .
How to make a man CONNECT with you . . .
Sex means *nothing* to a man if he does this . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’ve ever been in bed with a man and had him
close his eyes and seem to “go somewhere else”
you have to go watch this video right away . . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

This short little video reveals the truth about
what men are thinking about when they’re in bed
with a woman (when they SHOULD be focused 100%
mind, body and soul on you) . . .

And teaches you EXACTLY what to say and do to get
him to SNAP back to you like a rubber band . . .
look you right in the eye . . . and feel an
incredible level of connection he’s simply never
thought was possible before . . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You’ll learn more about the erotic imagination
of men in the few minutes it takes you to watch this
video than you would in a lifetime on your own . . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Click To Close

How to unleash your NAUGHTY side . . .

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Subject Lines

How to unleash your NAUGHTY side . . .
How a GOOD girl can unleash her NAUGHTY side . . .
How to be NAUGHTY (without feeling like a slut) . . .
This NAUGHTY trick will blow his mind . . . (Safe for work)


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you’re a “good” girl who’s feeling that crazy itch to
be just a LITTLE bit naughty you have to go watch this
video right now . . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

What I love about this video is that it teaches you the
secret of being INCREDIBLY sexy and alluring to a man
without ever acting or feeling “slutty” . . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

In fact, when you watch this you’ll learn how to get a
man more turned on and desperate for *you* . . .

While fully clothed . . .

Acting totally innocent . . .

Than any other woman he’s ever met could while totally
naked . . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Fill in the blank:

The only erogenous zone on a man that matters is
his ____________.

Do you know the answer?

Do you know how to USE the answer?

{Your Affiliate Link}

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. The reason so many men “pull away” from women is
because women don’t understand this naughty secret
about men . . .

{Your Affiliate Link}

Click To Close

The Good Girl’s Guide To Talking Dirty . . . (From a guy)

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The Good Girl’s Guide To Talking Dirty . . .
How to talk DIRTY to a man . . .
What men mean when they ask you to TALK DIRTY . . .
When sex gets BORING do THIS . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

OK, before we get going I have to warn you. . .

Today’s email gets a LITTLE bit dirty.

But it also gets REALLY fun. . .

Here’s a question I got from Monica recently. . .

Monica asks. . .

Here’s my problem: Sex between my boyfriend and me has
gotten kind of boring.

I love him. I think he loves me, but it seems like when we’re
making love it’s just become kind of rote and disconnected.

I just want him to pay attention to me and make love
to me the way he used to and I don’t know what to do.

Hi, Monica,

Thanks for your question; it’s one I get a LOT.

And I’m going to give you the same answer I give every
woman. . .

If you want your man to be 100% focused on you. . .

Fantasizing about you during the day. . .

Counting down the minutes until he gets to see you again. . .

You don’t have to kill yourself at the gym.

You don’t have to buy a bunch of sexy lingerie (though there’s
nothing wrong with doing that if you want.)

Nope, if you want your guy to become sexually and emotionally
addicted to you, all you have to do is learn to TALK DIRTY
and make love to his mind.

I’ve said this a lot, but a man’s number one erogenous zone
isn’t in his pants, it’s in his head. . .

Guys live in a state of perpetual sexual fantasy.

And we all dream of meeting a woman who really understands
our sexual buttons and knows how to push them in a really
powerful way.

So here’s what I recommend:

Drop whatever you’re doing and go watch his amazing video
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If you’re nervous or feel self conscious talking dirty. . .
or if you feel kind of dumb because you just don’t know what
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Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. You won’t believe what it feels like once you learn what
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The most passionate Valentine’s Day of your life?

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The most passionate Valentine’s Day of your life?
More romance than you can handle on Valentine’s Day (works even on “Romantic Idiot” men.)


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

If you want to inspire your man to give you the most passionate,
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The Lingerie Nightmare

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If you don’t want him to see your body, do this . . .
If your’e ASHAMED of your body, this is how you turn a man on . . .


Hey it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

Have you ever had “The Lingerie Nightmare???”

A lot of women have . . .

It’s a nightmare where you decide to surprise your man and
bring the SPARK back to your relationship . . .

So you go to Victoria’s secret and buy something SPECIAL
and SKIMPY . . .

And you put it on . . .

And all you want (so much) is for him to LOOK at you the
way he did back then . . .

With HUNGER and APPRECIATION and LOVE and LUST . . .

But in the nightmare he doesn’t do that at all, does he?

Because even though you’re working hard you don’t have the
body you want yet . . .

So when he looks at you in the nightmare he doesn’t see the
GODDESS you want him to see . . .

He just stares at your thighs, your belly, your arms . . .
with . . . disappointment.

I know that feeling of not being good enough is AWFUL and
I don’t want you to ever feel it again (even in a dream)
which is why I want you to go watch this video right now . . .

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It’s by an amazing woman named Felicity Keith . . .

Felicity isn’t a “supermodel” or a “sexpert” or anything like
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In fact, Felicity is just a totally-average looking kind-of-overweight
40-ish Mom from Washington State.

But Felicity’s discovered a crazy way to make a man absolutely
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much at all . . .

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The most amazing part is that when you listen to Felicity’s story
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You’ll be amazed at the new way your man looks at you . . .

How your “problem areas” suddenly seem INVISIBLE to him . . .

How you catch him looking at you even when 25-year-old’s in yoga
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Best,

(YOUR NAME)

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Are “FAT” women better at SEX?????

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Are “FAT” women better at SEX?????
Why “FAT” women are better in bed . . .
Why men say “Fat” women are better in bed . . .
What “Curvy” girls know about men that “Skinny bitches” never will . . .
If you’re “Curvy” this will change your sex life forever . . .


Hey, it’s (YOUR NAME) . . .

OK, this is shocking . . .

A recent survey of over 1,000 men showed that 73% of guys say
“curvy” women or even women who are a little overweight are
MUCH BETTER in bed than “skinny” women are . . .

WHY?????

Well, according to the guys it’s because “Curvy” girls often
know how to ________ _________ while skinny women almost
NEVER do . . .

Can you fill in the blank?

If you can’t you REALLY need to go watch this amazing video
by Felicity Keith right now . . .

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Felicity is just an average, slightly overweight mom of 2 . . .

But she’s figured out how to make a man grin like a cheshire
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Without even touching him . . .

Without taking off any of your clothes . . .

And even if you think you’re “fat” and hate looking at yourself
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Astonishing stuff that will cure your insecurity around men forever.

Best,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. I know you’re working hard to get in shape and I want you to
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you might find yourself in a TERRIBLE trap . . .

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[Article] Threesomes: Is Three Company…or a Crowd?

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Article by Felicity Keith-Threesomes: Is Three Company…or a Crowd?


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Threesomes are one of those titillating topics that get people talking yet many don’t know the best way to add them into their sex life. Read on as Felicity dishes some advice on having a menage a trois. “Hi Felicity, …


Threesomes are one of those titillating topics that get people talking yet many don’t know the best way to add them into their sex life. Read on as Felicity dishes some advice on having a menage a trois.

“Hi Felicity, What is your opinion on threesomes? Do you have any good information on them? My husband and I have talked about threesomes being a fantasy of ours. But if we are ready to actually take the step to try one, where should we start? Any advice?”
The most important piece of advice I have for you is to create VERY clear boundaries with your husband.

Threesome and How to Make it Work Discuss up front the activities you are both comfortable with as well as what you aren’t comfortable happening. For example, one friend I know had a rule that her boyfriend could not have intercourse with the other woman, everything else was acceptable to her.

Someone else I know spontaneously agreed to a threesome with her husband and another man after enjoying a few drinks out at a party. No discussion about boundaries was had ahead of time. When she became intimate with the second man, her husband realized he really wasn’t alright with seeing another man pleasure his wife. He broke up the intimate situation which apparently escalated into a booze-fueled argument. Threats were made and the police were called to the scene. She was so embarrassed when the neighbors asked what had happened!

It may seem like talking about a threesome ahead of time and deciding rules and things isn’t sexy and takes some of the fantasy and excitement out of it…but because the risk of hurt feelings, jealousy, and other issues is high, talking things through is necessary.

In a neutral setting, openly discuss why each of you is interested in experiencing a threesome. Talk about whether you’ll be inviting a male or female to join you. Then discuss the specific activities you each want to experience and agree to what you both feel comfortable with.

Be honest and direct. For example, if you aren’t okay with your husband having intercourse with this other woman but you are okay with any combination of oral giving/receiving, say so. If you aren’t sure how you feel, talk about that too.

You can also agree on a safe word to use if something becomes uncomfortable in the moment. It’s very possible that what sounds okay ahead of time might cross the line when it’s actually taking place. Having a way to quickly communicate your discomfort to each other is a good idea.
The second piece of advice is be careful about who you are inviting to join you.

Threesome and Fantasies of a Couple, A close friend, or neighbor might seem like a familiar choice but because you are already in each other’s lives, it can cause issues down the road.

I know one couple who asked her good friend to join them in a ménage a trois. It worked fine during the actual experience, but after, the woman couldn’t get the image of her husband entwined with her friend out of her mind. Every time she saw her friend, she thought of it. And it began to make her feel jealous and insecure over time.

Even if you have a friend (male or female) who you find attractive, carefully consider the long term impact it could have on your relationship down the road. The issues with threesomes rarely happen with the actual act, it’s how our brains process things after the fact. Once you or your husband have been sexually intimate with a mutual friend, you can’t erase it and go back to when things were strictly platonic. Think honestly about whether jealousy could become a problem.

I think selecting someone you know, but aren’t particularly close with, is the best idea. Think of someone who you trust but also that you don’t see as a regular part of your daily life.

One idea is to see if there is a swingers club in your area. These private members-only clubs give couples open to all sorts of sexual proclivities the chance to meet other people with similar tastes. The clubs typically have a code of conduct that everyone agrees to and there are rules in place to keep people safe. The club managers know who the members are so there is a certain amount of assurance. For example, many clubs only allow couples in the “play” areas. An unaccompanied single man might not be allowed to roam naked freely about the club.

And remember, it’s okay to decide that actually going through with a threesome isn’t your cup of tea. There are other creative ways to use the power of imagination to bring the fantasy to life without actually bringing a third person into your bed. In the program Language of Desire, I teach you several fun options to creatively experience fantasies that honor each person’s boundaries.

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[Article] Why “ED” doesn’t Spell the E-N-D to Mutual Satisfaction

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Article by Felicity Keith-Why “ED” doesn’t Spell the E-N-D to Mutual Satisfaction


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We’ve all giggled at the goofy commercials but ED is a problem that affects nearly every relationship at one time or another. Felicity Keith offers up some advice on the topic. Hi Felicity! I met the love of my life …


We’ve all giggled at the goofy commercials but ED is a problem that affects nearly every relationship at one time or another. Felicity Keith offers up some advice on the topic.

Hi Felicity! I met the love of my life at age 59 and we are now engaged (he’s 58 & I’m 60). We are both fit, healthy & look much younger than our years. But we have a sexual problem, one that is very common to many.

My sweetheart has erectile dysfunction. I bought medication for him but it hasn’t worked. He goes above & beyond to satisfy me but I think it’s a bit of overkill. I get exhausted and so wiped out from aggressive oral & manual stimulation, sometimes twice a day but definitely every day.

I’ve discussed this with him and he tries to slow down a bit but goes right back after a few days. I tried explaining that, if he was able to perform regularly, he could NEVER keep up a schedule like that. Any suggestions for me?

Wow! That is wonderful to have a partner so committed to making sure you are sexually satisfied. However, ouch!, what you describe would be a bit of overkill for most women.

Our lady bits are the most sensitive part of our body and is home to over 8000 nerve endings all packed into one very small area. It’s pretty common to need some downtime after a round of focused stimulation. Plus, a climax itself can be emotionally (as well as physically) draining.

ED Erectile Dysfunction Issue in a Relationship I definitely encourage you to explain that to him directly. Too much attention in that one glorious location can equal a whole lotta discomfort for you!

An important thing for you to understand as well is that ED can be a big blow to a his self-esteem. For so many guys, his entire identity as a man is connected to his penis in some manner. And combine that with how much of his sexual self-worth comes from pleasing his woman… well, when the little guy isn’t cooperating, it can be devastating.

His over-eagerness to make certain you are satisfied in the Big O department is likely an effort to compensate for the ED and also to boost his confidence that he KNOWS he satisfies you.
The problem is that it sounds like in all of his effort to focus on you, he’s forgotten to check in and make sure you are enjoying yourself.

One question I have is whether you’ve tried more than just one type of ED medication? Because, like with so many medical and health issues, it can take some trial and error to find the right dosage or type of medicine that works. I definitely encourage you both to not give up!

Now, back to your uncomfortable situation…

My suggestion is to take climaxing off the table for a defined period of time, like say for a week or two. Tell him instead of focusing on you reaching climax, you are both going to focus on enjoying the pleasure of sensual physical touch. Kissing, massage, exploring other erogenous zones besides genitals.
Because sex and intimacy are so much more than intercourse and climaxing.

ED Erectile Dysfunction and How to Handle It You could play with different sensations using massage oil, ice cubes, soft fabrics, etc. Just enjoy taking turns running these items across different parts of your body and enjoy how it feels.

You can also take long baths or showers together where you wash each other’s hair and soap up each others bodies. Basically, get in touch with things that feel wonderful and loving and sensual to remind each other that there is more to your bedroom life than nether region stimulation.

Another fun idea is to enjoy a supercharged make out session. Just like back when you were teenagers. You could drive the car to a place like the beach or to a drive-in movie (if you live near one that still operates) and kiss like crazy.
All of these activities are mutually pleasurable.

You will probably discover a slower pace and things that feel good you’d either never imagined or had forgotten. And that gives you a new menu of options to choose from down the road.

Once the no-climax period is over with, you can reincorporate pleasure “down there” from him. Just encourage that slower pace and tenderness.

In the program The Language of Desire I teach over 30 fun techniques that amp up the intimacy in any relationship. There is even an entire section devoted to what to do if there are obstacles to overcome in your sex life.

Do you have a question you’d like me to answer? Head on over to my Facebook page and ask away!

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[Article] Why Do Men Love Dirty Talk So Much?

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Article by Felicity Keith-Why Do Men Love Dirty Talk So Much?


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Talk dirty to me…” It’s the title of rock and pop songs… It’s something you’ve probably been asked to do… And maybe you fumbled around with trying to come up with a response… Maybe you just changed the subject and …


Talk dirty to me…”

It’s the title of rock and pop songs…

It’s something you’ve probably been asked to do…

And maybe you fumbled around with trying to come up with a response…

Maybe you just changed the subject and hoped he didn’t ask again!

No matter how you personally feel about talking dirty, you totally get that guys love dirty talk. But have you ever wondered “why is dirty talk so arousing to him?”

Look no further as I’m here to give you the low-down on the dirty. Knowing why he loves it when you talk dirty gives you an unfair advantage. It’s sort of like having advanced sexy ninja skills to make him putty in your presence.
Come with me as we uncover the specifics to why talking dirty drives men wild!
1. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets

Woman Showing How to Talk Dirty to a Guy If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a big charge of excitement. He knows that he is the only one who gets to see this naughty side of you. Like he’s the one who inspires you to be uninhibited and that’s intoxicating to his ego.

And even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a dirty little vixen for his eyes only gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens all of his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.
2. He feels like a rockstar sex god

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you f#$%ing LOVE what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled expressions of bliss tell him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

You see, men are hard-wired in their brains to please us sexually. This goes all the way back to cave man days. However, in modern life, there are so many mixed signals both genders give that can get in the way of him knowing he’s “done his job” of satisfying you. Dirty talk cuts right through all the gray and speaks to him clearly.
3. Your confidence slays him

A woman who can confidently use dirty talk to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Most men are helplessly drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. He doesn’t have to play guessing games as to how to turn you on when you tell him exactly what you want.

And your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!
4. Dirty talk equals enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. In fact, enthusiasm is consistently ranked as the #1 thing that makes a man feel like sex is awesome. Think about it, a quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. He ends up wondering if he’s pleasing you which can bring up insecurities for him.

When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are enjoying yourself. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you two validates that he’s pleasing you, refer to #2 above!

All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty?

Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone. If you’ve thought “I’m too shy to talk dirty!” or you simply want to know exactly how to talk dirty to a man I’d love to show you! All I ask is you don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life!
Three easy ways to ease into naughty talk are to…
Happy Woman Doing Dirty Talks by Texting1. Start by texting

A simple “I can’t stop thinking about…” followed by a message like “you naked” or “the way you satisfied me last night” or “how bad I want you right now” are ways to get your point across without being totally explicit. It’s a great place to start.
2. Give a naughty play-by-play

When you are having sex, you can describe out loud how much you love what he’s doing. Tell him how good he feels, tell him you don’t want him to stop, or give him directions on what to do next.
3. Take a deep breath and let it fly!

It helps to think of getting into character. What would the naughty vixen version of you say to him? Play that role and don’t censor what dirty words fly out of your mouth!

In the program The Language of Desire I teach you ways to get over any shyness you may feel about talking dirty and give you over 200+ dirty phrases that are totally done for you. I coach you through step-by-step exactly how to talk dirty to your guy and get comfortable saying naughty things.

Naughty phrases guaranteed to drive him wild!

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[Article] How to Bring Back the Spark in a Long-Term Relationship

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Whether it’s been 2 years…or 26…the sexual spark sometimes fades in a relationship. Here are a few ideas to bring it roaring back! Hi Felicity! I would love to hear what you have to say about this. My husband and …


Whether it’s been 2 years…or 26…the sexual spark sometimes fades in a relationship. Here are a few ideas to bring it roaring back!

Hi Felicity! I would love to hear what you have to say about this. My husband and I have been married for 26 years and have two children. We raised a 23 year old daughter, she is now gone from our home, and our son is 15. We have a good marriage and a good sex life as well, but at times the spark goes up and down. After 26 years of marriage how do you with a good marriage keep the spark present sexually and moving forward in life? Thanks for your time!

Fireworks as Concept of Bringing Back the Spark in Relationship First of all, congratulations on such a long marriage! Twenty six years together is impressive 🙂

As you mentioned, it is totally normal that your sex life will experience some ups and downs.

Each of us deal with fluctuations in hormones and other biological processes that have an effect on our libidos as we age. Also, after so much time together, it’s normal to develop some routines and automatically know our partner’s preferences.

These routines can end up making sex together somewhat predictable…
And predictability can definitely dim the spark.

My best advice is to purposely switch things up. Adding in something different can charge up the amount of dopamine that both of your brains will release giving that extra ZING.

When sex becomes routine, our brains don’t fire off as much of the pleasure chemical. And that leaves us feeling less inspired about sex. But it’s quite easy to remedy the situation by adding in some unexpected twists to the regular sexual plot line.

Intimate Couple Bringing Back the Fire in the Relationship You can do a simple thing like try a different room or time of day. Go ahead and get busy in the kitchen. Or surprise him in the shower one morning for a before-work quickie. Just changing the room to someplace other than your bedroom or doing it in the morning vs. at night is an easy way to give you both a sexual charge.

Another idea to try is getting into a “character” to do some role playing (even don a wig or some type of costume for maximum effect). The illicit thrill of making love to someone new is taboo but this is a completely safe way to pretend…

Maybe you arrange to meet up with your husband at a new restaurant or a place slightly out of town (you wouldn’t want to run into the neighbors!). And when you arrive, he might not recognize you with a wig and glasses on. You can then proceed to seduce him over the meal and invite him over for a “nightcap”.
Ooh la la, you naughty vixen!

I admit, some of this may sound silly but all of these ideas are simple ways to break out of your normal patterns. You’ll be surprised at how much a little surprise and novelty will bring that spark rarin’ back at full force.

My recent program, The Language of Desire has a lot of in-depth material about how brain chemistry works in our sex lives.

I’ve included step-by-step instructions on over thirty different techniques guaranteed to amp up the spice and spark in your sex life. And the women who have read it are giving raving reviews (I’m sure their men are too *wink*). I’d love to have you check it out: LanguageOfDesire.com

Do you have a question you’d like me to answer? Head on over to my Facebook page and ask away!

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[Article] Can You “Cheat-Proof” Your Relationship?

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ARTICLE by Felicity Keith-Can You “Cheat-Proof” Your Relationship?


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Is there a way to prevent a partner from straying? How can you learn to trust again after getting betrayed? Listen as Felicity gives advice in this Q&A about trust and infidelity. “Hi Felicity – I need some advice. I …


Is there a way to prevent a partner from straying? How can you learn to trust again after getting betrayed? Listen as Felicity gives advice in this Q&A about trust and infidelity.

“Hi Felicity – I need some advice. I am in a great relationship, we’ve been going strong for about six months now. I am happy and in love, and he seems just as content. But the problem is my last boyfriend was a cheater. When I discovered his betrayal, I was devastated. I even swore off love forever. Although, eventually I got tired of being single. And I met a really great guy (we were set up by my good friend, a co-worker of his). And even though my new guy is very different, and I love him very much, I’m still terrified he’s going to cheat on me, too. Is there anything I can do to make sure he won’t stray from our relationship?”

Well, short of locking him in a shed and hiding the key (which I do NOT recommend btw), the harsh answer is no, there isn’t anything you can do to “make sure” he won’t stray.
And I can tell you the quickest way to push him away (and possibly encourage him TO stray) is to constantly worry about him cheating.

Curious Woman Looking if Her Boyfriend is Cheating Because your constant anxiety will come across in your communication. And it will feel to him like you are saying “I don’t trust you”.

Over time, this weighs heavy on the relationship. It’s actually downright toxic. He may even begin to feel like you are accusing him of cheating. And being made to feel guilty when you are innocent builds resentment.
Big time resentment.

I remember when I was a kid and my mom didn’t trust me to not get into the Halloween candy she’d bought in early October. So she hid it (not very well). And she kept tabs on me. And she questioned me. And watched me…

And finally, I just got so sick of being made to feel like I’d snuck some candy when I hadn’t…that I climbed up to the place she hid it in the hall closet and snatched a big handful.

Obviously this is a lot more serious than sneaking a few fun-size chocolate bars…but the result could end up the same. I’m not saying he’s going to run out and cheat. But if he feels like he’s already paying the price for a crime he didn’t commit…well…
My suggestion?

It sounds to me like you have some processing to do from your last relationship. A therapist or counselor can be a great option to help you work through your feelings of betrayal from the past. There are also tons of great books out there that can walk you through the steps of healing and learning to trust again.

And give your new boyfriend the benefit of the doubt. If he gives you no reasons to be distrustful, then for the sake of your relationship, you’ve got to knock it off with your worrying.
Here is the tough reality when it comes to love and cheating: on some level, you have to understand that it is possible you could get cheated on again.

And it will suck big time if it happens. But the good news is you will survive. You made it through before and have even been able to fall in love again.

Now, for some super fun ways to bolster both your emotional and physical connection…it sounds to me like taking a proactive approach to deepening your intimacy is one remedy for your anxiety.

Happy Couple With Strong Relationship and No Issues And, while it doesn’t “cheat-proof” your relationship, generally speaking, when both partners are feeling really connected to one another the chances of any wandering eyes go way way down. And when you are having a blast in the bedroom, you are focused on each other more than the idea of extra-curriculars.

You may have seen the emails from Mike Fiore about the new program I put together called Language of Desire. In it you will find over 30 techniques specifically designed to not only give you both an awesomely fun sex life, but ways to deepen the emotional intimacy component of your relationship, too. You can check it out at LanguageOfDesire.com.

If you have a relationship question you’d like me to answer, join me on my Facebook page and send me a message!

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[Article] What Does it Mean When He Closes His Eyes During Sex?

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ARTICLE by Felicity Keith – What Does it Mean When He Closes His Eyes During Sex?


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You are in bed together… Passionately in the moment… Feeling so intimately connected… And then… He closes his eyes in order to get to the “finish line”. What exactly does that mean? If you are like a lot of women, …


You are in bed together…

Passionately in the moment…

Feeling so intimately connected…

And then…

He closes his eyes in order to get to the “finish line”.

What exactly does that mean?

If you are like a lot of women, you might wonder if he’s retreating into a vivid fantasy world. Wondering, is he thinking about another woman?

I’m happy to tell you that his closing his eyes really has nothing to do with escaping from the moment with you and everything to do with actually enjoying the intense sensations happening.

For most guys, they put a certain amount of mental effort toward holding BACK on climaxing during sex. They want to last longer, to please you more, and not race to the finish. So when they actually do shift gears into allowing their orgasm to happen, the physical sensations are powerful. Closing his eyes allows him to fully tune in to what is happening pleasure-wise in his body.

It was explained to me in this way: When you take away one of the five senses, it makes the other senses and sensations stronger and more vivid.

When I surveyed my Man Panel when writing The Language of Desire (and the sexy secondary product, The Sensual Tsunami) about what male orgasm feels like, they set me straight. One man told me: “It’s like a slow-building rollercoaster that takes a very sharp incline almost straight up before you rocket straight back down. And you get this amazing feeling in your stomach right before you climax and then for the next 10-15 seconds the floor drops out and you are drifting in bliss. Then you come back to reality.”

With that kind of intensity, he isn’t even keeping track of what his eyes are doing!

You can also think about it like kissing. We close our eyes when we kiss not because we want to disconnect from the moment but because it actually draws our awareness closer to what is taking place physically. Except when it comes to orgasm, it’s about a million times more physical fireworks.

Could he be thinking about another woman when he closes his eyes?

Sure, it’s possible he’s mentally fantasizing about making love to a Victoria’s Secret model while he’s in bed with you. Just like sometimes you might close your eyes and think about Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington…or whoever floats the little man in your boat. Fantasizing in that manner isn’t a bad thing. It’s totally normal and most people (both men and women) do it on occasion. And it doesn’t damage your relationship when it’s something that happens once in awhile, especially when the fantasy includes a celebrity or someone you aren’t ever actually going to even meet…let alone get naked with.

If you’d like more information about what goes through your man’s brain when it comes to sex as well as in depth information about how to use sexual fantasies to spice up your intimate connection, make sure to check out The Language of Desire.

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[Article] Why You Should Keep the Lights On for Nookie

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ARTICLE by Felicity Keith-Why You Should Keep the Lights On for Nookie


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If you are the type to turn off the lights before getting busy with your man, read up! With all of the messages we receive daily about our appearance, it’s no wonder that so many of us are critical of …


If you are the type to turn off the lights before getting busy with your man, read up!

With all of the messages we receive daily about our appearance, it’s no wonder that so many of us are critical of ourselves. And when you feel insecure about something, your natural inclination is to hide it. Not put it all out there on display!

But that’s exactly what I’m encouraging you to do.

I want you to “do it” in broad daylight…

With the lights on…

Letting him devour your body with his eyes…

Why you might ask?

It’s because men are highly VISUAL creatures. Adding in the ability for him to see how much pleasure he’s giving you sends his brain into sexual overdrive.

Here’s just a few reasons why:

1. Giving him permission to adore and pleasure your body feeds his ego.

Did you know the number one thing that turns a man on is your enthusiasm for sex and how much you enjoy his prowess? Yep, number one. Not how flat your tummy is or the lack of cellulite on your booty.

He wants to feel like he is taking you to the heights of bliss. And if you are too caught up in keeping covered, you can’t possibly surrender to the pleasurable sensations happening. If you refuse certain positions out of insecurity, that definitely affects how he interprets your enthusiasm.

2. Letting him watch himself have sex with you is literally intoxicating.

Two of his senses (three if you are talking dirty and moaning) are involved. Not only does he get to physically feel how amazing the sex is, he gets to watch how amazing it is, too. It’s a double-shot of hot for him. And his brain goes on overdrive releasing all of the amazing feel-good pleasure chemicals that frankly feel insanely incredible.

Plus, with the lights on, it’s like his own personal naughty movie.

Especially in positions like doggie style where he has a front row view of all the action. Or if you strategically place a mirror where he can take in the show. Yowza!

Okay, I get that the idea of putting it all on display sounds scary to some of you reading this. But here is what I want you to remember:
He’s not judging you NEARLY as much as you are.

He’s way more focused on enjoying the hot view of sex with you than on counting how many stretch marks you have. Because, hello! Naked woman having sex with him!

Also, if he tells you that you are beautiful…BELIEVE HIM. Don’t list out your flaws or put yourself down. Let him know that his appreciation is well-received.

In my program The Language of Desire, I give you tons of ways to not only feel your sexiest but also to empower you to know exactly how to blow his mind through dirty talk and specific techniques that reach right into his primal sexual brain. Go check it out, you’ll both be happy you did!

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[Article] 3 Naughty Phrases that Drive Men Wild

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Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally. What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that …


Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally. What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that his masculinity is arousing you. There is an almost universal male archetype of the strong sex-god rock star who is able to magically seduce and satisfy women. Yes, even your brainiac math whiz-type has a fantasy of being THAT guy. When you say these phrases, it’s like you’ve crawled right into his sexual imagination.

Here are a few phrases you can say to him can give him that feeling of sex-god rock star he craves.

You feel so incredible.

Or you can fill in the blank with any kind of adjective there: amazing, big, good, fantastic, hard, huge, awesome. Add in the f-word for a more explicit effect. You get the idea. When you are having intercourse, telling him just how great he feels to you is the ultimate compliment. This validates his prowess and physicality in real-time. And you’ll learn in my program Language of Desire just how much importance most guys place on their penis.

Don’t stop!

It could be any command really: harder, right there, give it to me. Again, feel free to add in curse words and explicit language. Giving him a command during sex to keep doing exactly what he’s doing to you is confident and hot. It’s hot because it shows him just how much you are enjoying it. Men say the number one thing they love during sex is an enthusiastic partner!

I can’t get enough of you OR I’m so turned on by you.

This phrase speaks to his ability to arouse you. That he turns you into a sex-hungry vixen who wants his body all the time. Is that an exaggeration? Sure. But think about how often we unwittingly turn our partners away because we are tired, or have a headache, or just aren’t in the mood. This doesn’t mean you have to be ready to go at it 24/7. However, when you feed his ego that he has the ability to drive you wild with desire you make him feel amazing, especially when you say this phrase outside of the bedroom. The idea that his woman is distracted in the middle of the day by sexy thoughts of him? Rawr.

If you want over 200+ ideas, phrases, and text messages to drive your man wild with desire for you, make sure to check out my new program, Language of Desire. I give you step by step instructions and tons of exact words to use to get exactly what you both want in and out of the bedroom.

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